Devadiya Jee

In today’s competitive world, we are slowly losing the true meaning of home . We often talk about success, progress, and growth—but in this race, the very place meant to give us peace is turning into a space of pressure. So let’s pause for a moment and ask: What is a home supposed to be? The Original Essence of Home A home is not just a building made of bricks; it is a place where every member of the family feels security, freedom, warmth, and peace. In simple terms, home should feel like zero gravity —a state where you are free from pressure, free to move, free to breathe, and free to simply be yourself . A true home is meant to be… A place without unnecessary worries A space where emotions are respected A comfort zone where freedom is natural, not restricted A safe environment where every age group can grow peacefully But somewhere along the journey, things have changed. The Reality Today: Peace Inside, Pressure Inside Ironically, the place meant to be the most peaceful...

A Thoughtful Guide to Life Through Ancestral Wisdom Life is unpredictable. No matter how much we plan, life often moves in directions we never expected. But while uncertainty is unavoidable, confusion is not. There is a way to walk through life with more clarity, stability, and inner strength. That way begins with the people who came before you—your father, your grandfather, and the long chain of ancestors whose lives shaped yours. They carried fears, dreams, mistakes, successes, and wisdom. Their stories are not just memories… They are maps. This guide is a deeper, more reflective practice to help you understand life by learning from your family’s lived experiences. 🌿 Why Study Your Father and Grandfather’s Lives? Every generation experiences pain, growth, choices, challenges, and joy. While times change, the human journey does not. They struggled with identity — just like you. They worried about the future — just like you. They made mistakes and learned — just like yo...

Does a Person Forget How to Drive with Experience? "An Indian spends his entire life from birth to death just getting documents made." This quote might sound like satire, but it rings painfully true for many. From birth certificates to death certificates, Aadhaar to PAN, ration cards to voter IDs, and of course, the ever-expiring driving license, an average Indian navigates a sea of paperwork throughout life. But among all these documents, one that puzzles many is: Why does a driving license expire? Let’s explore that question and the irony that, despite gaining more driving experience with age, we still need to prove we're qualified to drive. 1. The Logic Behind License Expiry At first glance, it seems ridiculous. If you've been driving for 20 to 30 years, Have a clean record, And haven't caused any accidents, Then why should you be asked to renew your license? But here’s the official reasoning behind license expiration: Health and Safety Checks Driv...

Life is a journey we often live on autopilot, constantly moving from one worry to the next. We rarely pause to reflect, to ask ourselves: "Is this really living?" This is a reflection on the cycle many of us unknowingly become trapped in. Childhood When we were young, we worried about studies. We were told: “Work hard now, so your future is secure.” For example, a 10-year-old struggles with school exams while his friends play outside. He hears adults say, "You must come first in class." Slowly, the joy of learning fades, replaced by the pressure to perform. Adulthood When we grew up, we worried about jobs and livelihood. After graduation, a young woman applies for hundreds of jobs. Rejections pile up. Even after landing a job, she feels constant stress with deadlines, appraisals, and bills. She wonders if this is what she studied so hard for. Marriage and Family When we secured a livelihood, we worried about marriage. A man in his late twenties earns wel...

As India prepares to commemorate the 500th birth anniversary (1525 to 2025) of a legendary warrior queen, it’s time we shine a light on a name too often missing from the pages of popular history: Rani Abbakka Chowta. She wasn’t just a ruler of Ullal, a small coastal town in South India. She was India’s first female freedom fighter, a fearless Jain queen who repeatedly repelled Portuguese invaders in the 16th century and upheld the sovereignty of her kingdom. Rani Abbakka hailed from the Chowta dynasty of Karnataka, a royal family that followed Jainism and embraced a matrilineal system where succession passed through the female line. When the time came, Abbakka was entrusted with power not as a token, but as a true sovereign. What set her reign apart wasn’t just her lineage, but the Jain principles that guided her governance: ahimsa (nonviolence), aparigraha (nonpossessiveness), satya (truthfulness), and sahishnuta (tolerance). But when these values were challenged by foreign aggression...

Superstitions have been deeply rooted in cultures across the world and India is no exception. From hanging lemons and chilies at the door to fearing a sneeze before leaving the house, many of us have grown up around these beliefs. But how often do we stop and question them? Here are 9 common superstitions explained logically with examples so we can move toward a more rational and scientific way of thinking. Always Remember This.  1. Lemons and Chilies Are Meant to Be Eaten Not Hung at the Door. Have you ever seen lemons and green chilies hanging from shop entrances or vehicles to ward off evil? Reality check: Lemons and chilies are food items rich in vitamin C and antioxidants. Their purpose is nutrition, not protection from imaginary forces. Example: If these items truly absorbed negative energy, wouldn’t they need to be disposed of safely like hazardous waste?  2. A Cat Crossing Your Path Isn’t Bad Luck It’s Just a Cat. Many people stop or turn back when a cat crosses their ...

Why does a driving license have an expiry date? It is a question many of us have asked, especially when we know how well we can drive. Driving is not like solving math problems or memorizing facts that fade with time. It is a practical life skill, like swimming or riding a bicycle. Once you learn it and practice it regularly, you usually do not forget it. So why should a person, who has been driving safely for 10, 20, or even 40 years, suddenly be treated as unfit or unauthorized just because a certain date printed on his license has passed? Let us take a simple example. Imagine Ramesh, a man in his late 40s, who has been driving since he was 18. He knows every corner of his city’s roads and follows all the traffic rules. One morning, while driving to work, he gets stopped at a traffic checkpoint. Everything is fine, his car is insured, he is wearing a seatbelt, not using his phone. But his driving license expired a week ago. The officer tells him he is technically breaking the law. Ra...

It’s a strange time in the world of work and employment. From bustling tech startups to traditional manufacturing floors, HR departments and job seekers alike are scratching their heads. Because today, three seemingly contradictory problems are growing side by side. Together, they paint a very real picture of the chaos we call the modern workforce. People Don’t Have Jobs Everywhere you look, someone’s hunting for work. Scroll through LinkedIn for five minutes and you'll find countless posts that begin with "Actively looking for opportunities" or "Open to work." Fresh graduates, skilled professionals, even experienced executives are jobless, underemployed, or stuck in roles far beneath their capabilities. Why? Companies are downsizing to cut costs. AI and automation are replacing entry-level roles. There’s also a growing gap between what people are trained for and what the market actually demands. A real-world example: a mechanical engineering graduate ends up ...

We all feel like giving up sometimes. Maybe you're tired. Maybe things aren't working out. And there's a voice in your head saying, “I can’t do this anymore,” “This is too hard,” or “I should stop.” But pause for a moment. What if this moment isn’t the end, but the beginning of something great? Most people give up just when they’re about to succeed. Why? Because they feel tired, discouraged, or believe they’ve already failed. But here’s the truth: that feeling of “I can’t” often means you’re closer than you think. Let’s look at some real people, from India and around the world, who almost gave up but didn’t. Because they kept going, their lives changed and so did the world around them. Thomas Edison failed 1,000 times while trying to invent the lightbulb. People thought he was wasting his time. But he kept trying and finally made it work. He once said, “I didn’t fail. I just found 1000 ways that didn’t work.” Dr. A.P.J. Abdul Kalam wanted to be a fighter pilot but got r...

India just launched the 0.5 Front War. The sequel to Operation Sindoor . No sirens. No smoke. No fire. No fuss. Just lists. And a quiet knock at your door. They hacked us with votes. We responded with a pen. And with law. This is India’s secret war. Where every fake name is now a ticking time bomb. Where a clipboard is more powerful than a Kalashnikov. “Aapke pitaaji ka janm certificate hai?” A simple question. But it cuts deeper than you think. This isn’t bureaucracy. This is a purge. This is war. No headlines. No drama. Just quiet erasure. Welcome to the 0.5 Front. Where names vanish from voter rolls like melting snow in the valleys of Kashmir. Let me take you through how we got here. In 2014, they laughed when Modi revived Aadhaar. But they missed the quiet brilliance of a biometric bomb. 130 crore fingerprints. Ghosts. Doubles. Clones. All flagged silently. Logged quietly. In 2015 came the NPR, the National Population Register. Door to door, mapping lineage, land, and legac...

Have you ever come across a word, a tool, or a concept that felt so new and strange, only to realize later that it had been around for years, maybe even centuries? It’s a phenomenon we all experience. When something appears in our life for the first time, it feels revolutionary, but in reality, it may have been part of the world long before we noticed. This blog explores the idea that “nothing is truly new, it just appears new to us when we experience it for the first time.” We'll walk through real-life examples, both big and small, that show how awareness, timing, and context change how we perceive what’s around us. 1. The COVID-19 Pandemic: A Wake-Up Call, Not a New Language When the COVID-19 pandemic struck the world, it introduced millions to words like: Quarantine Isolation Pandemic Epidemic Ventilator Immunity Social distancing To many people, these words felt brand new. It was the first time they were hearing them daily on news channels, in office emails, and i...

Have you ever paused and asked yourself, “Who’s really in control of my life?” If your answer isn’t a confident “Me,” it’s time for a wake-up call. Far too many people go through life unconsciously giving their power away. Not to a dictator, not to some villain, but to people’s opinions, the pursuit of money, or the weight of past experiences. And here’s the truth. It often happens subtly, over time. Before we realize it, we’ve become prisoners in our own lives. Let’s break down this invisible trap and explore how you can step out of it, for good. I. The Hidden Cost of Letting People Control You Humans are social creatures. We crave acceptance, connection, and community. But when that need turns into people-pleasing, fear of judgment, or constantly seeking approval, we start living someone else’s life instead of our own. How This Shows Up Choosing a career based on family expectations Staying in toxic relationships out of fear of being alone Altering your personality to fit...

Our nature is very very smart and intelligent Far more than we often realize or give credit for Compared to human understanding nature works with a level of balance precision and foresight that is nothing short of divine Like a superintelligent being it carefully designs times and distributes nutrients through fruits vegetables herbs and other elements of the earth Not only does it provide what our body needs but it also creates cravings in us for exactly what we should be consuming and exactly when This article explores how beautifully nature aligns human needs with its offerings using examples of seasonal fruits and vegetables that prove its quiet but magnificent wisdom Nature Understands Timing Better Than We Do Nature does not just grow food randomly It observes environmental conditions soil fertility climate and most beautifully the physiological needs of humans and animals during each season Everything has its time and everything comes with a purpose Example One Mango in Summ...

In recent times, a noticeable trend has emerged: many people are increasingly ignoring messages from WhatsApp groups. What was once a go-to source for quick updates, family banter, and community news is now being sidelined by users who are consciously choosing peace of mind over constant digital noise. The Decline of Trust in Group Information One of the key reasons for this shift is the growing concern over the authenticity of information shared in WhatsApp groups. Misinformation, half-truths, and unchecked forwards have made it difficult for users to trust the content they receive. Whether it’s fake news, exaggerated health tips, or politically charged messages, many are no longer taking group messages seriously. Unlike verified news channels or official apps, WhatsApp groups are often filled with opinions presented as facts. With no clear source or verification, people are becoming more skeptical and rightly so. Digital Fatigue and the Search for Peace Another major factor is digit...

We've all been there. One day, someone approaches you with a serious tone and says, “You know what they said about you?” Suddenly, your chest tightens. Maybe it's confusion, hurt, or even anger. Your mind begins to race, wondering what was said, who said it, and more painfully, why. Hearing that someone has spoken wrongly about you is not just frustrating; it can be deeply disheartening. Especially when you know the words aren’t true. But here’s a perspective that may help you handle such moments with strength and grace: If anyone tells you something wrong about me, simply ask them, “Do you really know him or her?” Or just lighten your heart and let it go. Let’s explore how to respond wisely and peacefully in such situations. First, pause before you react. Imagine you hear from a mutual friend that someone from work called you “lazy” behind your back. Your first instinct might be to confront them, demand an explanation, or defend yourself with frustration. But reacting in the h...

In the noise of daily life such as deadlines, disappointments, dreams unfulfilled, one quiet but powerful act often goes unnoticed: smiling. Not the forced kind for photos or the polite one we give in meetings. But a real, grounded smile. The kind that says, “It’s tough, but I’m okay. I choose peace anyway.” This article is a gentle reminder that a smile can be one of the most powerful responses to life’s unpredictability. Smile, Even When You Lose We’ve all been there, giving our best to something and still falling short. It's frustrating. Disheartening. But what if the victory you hoped for was needed more by someone else at that moment? What if life, in its quiet wisdom, was just setting you up for a better win later? Smile. Not because you lost, but because you still have the strength to try again. Smile, Even When You Lose Something Loss is a part of life, whether it’s a dream, an opportunity, or someone close to us. And yes, it hurts. But maybe what slipped away was never ...

In a culture that values harmony , respect for elders , and avoiding confrontation , many grow up believing that the ideal person is someone who is liked by all and never causes trouble. On the surface, this seems noble. But here’s a deeper truth: If you have no enemies, it may mean you stayed silent when your voice was needed the most. Yes, being liked by everyone feels safe. But silence during moments of injustice is not peace - it’s passivity. And often, that silence helps maintain the very systems that hurt people. Understanding the Quote The quote “If you do not have any enemy, that means you were silent when you needed to speak very necessarily” holds special meaning in society. We’re taught from childhood to “adjust,” to “let it go,” to “stay quiet in front of elders,” or to not “argue” with those in power. But what happens when corruption , injustice , or oppression becomes part of everyday life? If no one dares to speak, then wrong becomes normalized. Silence is not alway...

Have you ever found yourself in a situation where you clearly knew what was right and what was wrong - yet still chose to stay silent? It may have been during a heated conversation, in a toxic work environment, or even in the face of societal injustice. Many of us have. But here’s the uncomfortable truth: if you can't call out wrong when you see it, you may be giving up your power to stand up for your own rights. Knowing Isn't Enough Knowledge is power but only when it is used. Understanding what is wrong is the first step toward justice. But that knowledge, if left unspoken or unused, becomes hollow. It doesn’t protect you. It doesn’t protect others. In fact, it can create a deeper sense of frustration and helplessness. Too often, we justify our silence. We think: “It’s not my place.” “Someone else will say something.” “I don’t want to cause trouble.” But when everyone stays silent, injustice thrives. It becomes normalized. And what you allow in others’ situations oft...

In today’s world, leadership is no longer about being the loudest in the room or the smartest at the table. It’s about understanding people, managing emotions, and leading with empathy. In short, great leadership today requires high emotional intelligence (EQ). Leaders with high EQ create safe, strong, and productive environments - not through control, but through emotional clarity and presence. Here’s what high-EQ leadership looks like in real, practical terms: 1. Stay Calm in Chaos They don’t mirror anxiety - their calm becomes an anchor for the whole team. When everything around is falling apart tight deadlines, unexpected setbacks, difficult clients - leaders with high EQ don’t panic. They stay composed, grounded, and present. Their calm energy helps others settle down and focus, instead of feeding into the tension. Why it matters: People look to leaders for emotional cues. Your calmness can reset the emotional tone of the entire team. 2. Don’t Treat Feedback as a Personal A...

In today’s fast-paced world, it’s easy to forget what truly matters. We're constantly juggling responsibilities - careers, relationships, social expectations, finances, and ambitions. Somewhere in the chaos, many of us have unknowingly placed our own health on the back burner. But here’s a profound truth we often overlook: We are not just bodies trying to survive in this world. We are souls - eternal, conscious beings - who have temporarily been gifted a body to experience life in the physical realm. And this body? It comes from nature. It is born of the Earth - composed of the very elements that shape our world. Without it, we cannot interact with this life. Without it, we cannot fulfill our soul's purpose here. So, ask yourself this: If our soul has been given a body by nature to experience life, shouldn’t we honor and care for it as our top priority? The Spiritual Perspective: You Are a Soul, Not Just a Body Before anything else, you were and still are - a soul. The bo...